It all makes sense, when you think about it.
As soon as you have realized that
masturbation is natural,
then the next step is to do it regularly. Why?
Because it makes you learn about your own sexuality
and only when you know yourself, will you be able to
know other and whilst I understand this is an old
clich�, it is one that is most appropriate when it
comes to masturbation. Speaking about myself, I
started masturbating when I was not older than 8 years
old. In those days, I didn't not do it in terms
of sex, nor in order to achieve an orgasm, but rather
as a way to sooth myself. I would touch myself
frequently before going to bed, discovering the
feelings I would get from caressing one spot, putting
pressure on another etc.. Then one day, several
years later, my friend gave me a vibrator that she had
found in one of her parent's closets. "Do you
masturbate?" she asked me point blank and when I said
yes, she said tried this, you won't believe it!"
That day turned out to be the longest day at school
and I rushed back home with my friend's vibrator in my
bag. When I got to my bedroom, I was already soaking
wet and I settled on my bed, naked, legs slightly bent
and wide open. Funny how we are born with an innate
knowledge, for I knew exactly what to do with that
toy. I turned it on and started to masturbate with
it. I reached my first orgasm after 30 seconds.
I had just been masturbating by resting the vibrator
on my clit and at the edges of my vagina. The next
session saw me bolder. I started to insert the
vibrator inside my vagina and soon, I was done with my
second orgasm. I think I masturbated more that day
than I ever did after that. My advice to you?
Masturbate as often as possible. Experiment with
toys, use one hand and then the other. Masturbation
is like wine... It gets better with age! |