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Masturbation is the most natural way of expressing
oneself sexually.
This is the first thing I like to say because if
you were to believe some people, you'd think they'd be
talking about an evil act, the actions of people who
are dangerous, crazy, etc... Some people will
even tell you that it causes a whole range of
afflictions, such as loss of hearing etc...
The truth is, masturbation is nothing like that.
It is the body's reaction to sensory stimulation, a
mechanism by which sexuality is discovered and
maintained, a way to discover oneself, a gift.
The irony when thinking about all the bad things
that are said about it is that the natural consequence
of masturbation is orgasm, the most intense of
pleasures, again, one of our body's many ways to
reward us.
Masturbation provides teens with a means to
discover their sexuality and even to gain experience
by way of learning about what it is they like, how to
better control oneself for boys etc...
My mom caught me masturbating once, says a male
friend of mine. Like an idiot I had left the
door to my bedroom open and all she did was to close
it.
Later on when I was done, I was expecting her to
be upset with me but she wasn't.
All she said was to close my door next time, and
to learn how to last as long as possible so as to be
able to satisfy my partners later on in life.
So I started to masturbate for long sessions
trying to delay my orgasm as much as possible.
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